Tara and her twin sister were born at 37 weeks and came screaming into the world healthy and beautiful. We had 6 weeks of pure bliss with the usual trials and tribulations of parenting twins. We were in awe of every little thing they did, until at 6 weeks, Tara started doing little things that were our first insight into a world that would turn our family upside down. Those early weeks saw us coming home to empty cribs, trying to explain to our eldest why her sisters were not home, our little girl suffering seizure after seizure, hooked up to machines and having bloods drawn at all hours. But at 8 weeks, we took our little warrior home, and started our journey of therapies, appointments and more appointments.
At 11 months, as I prepared dinner for our girls, I had a call from our neurologist advising that her genetic results had come in and that she had a rare condition called STXBP1. As I googled it, I saw medical summaries that left us feeling so hopeless but also felt so far from the little girl full of smiles that we had at home. The reality was that very little was known and published about her condition at that stage, but as we connected with communities both here and abroad, we learned that our kids were fighters, that they showed their curiosity, their love, their nature and their sass in different ways. We found similarities and differences, things that worked and things that didn't. It reignited in us the light of hope.
As our community here in Australia has grown, we recognise the importance of making sure our kids have a voice, and that we can represent their needs in the wider international forums. We believe this would be best served by setting up a Foundation here in Australia, allowing us to raise funds for much needed research here, and make sure we can collaborate with international medical teams to get us ready when a treatment is made available.
Tara has taught our entire family so much in these 7 years. She has opened our eyes to the world of disability and rare diseases. She has shown us that anything can be achieved, never set a limit and that you should celebrate every inch-stone. To honour the dedication and hard work she puts in every day, we will make sure we advocate for her so she has access to every opportunity too!